Wednesday, January 22, 2014

stoop and scoop

Stoop and scoop!

By Abida Rahmani • Jan 17th, 2014 • Category: Features • 4 Comments
After spending few days in this part of the world, I realized that dog is not a dog here. Dog is a buddy, a kid, a girl or a boy and a very intimate person of the family.
At first when I saw this sign while walking on a trail “Stoop and Scoop, pick up after your pet”, with the picture of a dog, I wondered what it meant? The next day, while walking on a trail, came across a couple with a kid in stroller and waiting for the dog to get relieved from his poop. The man was holding a plastic bag; he covered his hand with the bag, quickly stooped, scooped the dog’s poop and put it securely in his jacket’s pocket. What a civilized nation! I was about to vomit my freshly eaten dinner. “Isn’t it a very dirty job?” I just could not keep silent. “Yeah, he is just like our kid and we do this for our kid too.” Though it was just a wilderness around but he did not throw it, rather he waited for the litter box.
It is a common phrase here two kids and a dog is a perfect American family. Here when two people meet each other with their dogs, both of them will first appreciate each other’s dog, its beauty, appearance, looks and then they will describe about their family tree and ancestors. His father was so and so and his mother was of such and such breed. In a way dogs are far luckier than the human beings here, keeping their family strings and linage. Kissing, hugging and luring dogs are a common practice.
While walking on paths, you come across lot many dogs; some leashed some unleashed, big, small, black, brown, white, tan, fat thin and skinny. Crossing through the path one day, noticing a very thin dog, I tried to be courteous, “is this dog suffering from some disease?” “No, it’s a miniature of Alsatian and……….and to show me its vitality, she pulled up the urinating dog. My goodness, it was still dripping. Once when I felt like running from an unleashed one, the owner at once reacted “She is such a friendly girl; she is not going to harm you.” Though there are signs every where that say “put your dogs on leash.” But here they show more kindness to their dogs. Once in a park surrounded by unleashed dogs, terrified!! The owners explained, the dogs are frightened because of your head gear. The point was to my scarf or hijab. I just politely ignored that discriminatory remark. After that incident I adopted a stern attitude. No more courtesy for dogs and their owners. So now coming across a dog I switch my way down and try to avoid it. It saves me in many ways, “sorry I have a canine allergy.”
The poodles are very cuddly and cute but the big dogs are real frightening. Instead of the all care and precaution many dog mulling cases are reported too in media. Some times they are life threatening. Most of the dogs live here inside the homes, the poodles in cozy beds inside the bedrooms or living rooms. Big dogs have real nice dog houses. In the chilly, freezing temperatures all the dogs are kept inside, even in small condos or apartments.
There are humane societies which take care of these animals. They are better than humans with an E. There are Dog clubs, Canine Societies, Kennels and many websites about dogs. Dogs are pretty expensive here; the cheapest one would be about five hundred dollars and then to keep them is more expensive. At first there is a license for keeping a dog, then it goes through all the medical check ups, anti rabies vaccines regularly and lots are paid to veterinarians. So being a vet here is a great rewarding job.
For small dogs which are called Chihuahua, they hold them inside their jackets in cold, zipping them up a little bit peeping out.
Dogs here live in such a great luxury for which even lots of people back home could not imagine. Every grocery store and big stores have isles and shelves for dog’s foods, toys, clothing, shampoos, body wash, beddings and pillows. So much research is done for making their food healthier & tastier.
There are Pets day cares with catchy names, pet’s parlors, grooming centers, dogs’ swimming pools, dog sitters like baby sitters and dog walkers.
A friend of mine used to walk 10 dogs and earned a handsome living.
I wish they could develop some proper toilet system for dogs or some thing like cats. In heaps of heavy snow, rain and freezing weather, dogs are taken out for walk and to get them relieved. The most important task after work or before is to take the dog out for walk around and to relieve him.
A smelly stench comes from the inside of a dog owner’s home, which an outsider could obviously feel.
I can not forget herds of stray dogs roaming in our streets in Pakistan and frequent cases of dog biting and rabies. When they outnumbered then there was a dog killing spree from the Municipality corporation (kutta maar muhim). It is still a common fashion there.
The bourgeois class will name their dog with an English name and talk to it in English. With dogs many kids practiced their English skills.
The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue.
-Anonymous
There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face.
-Ben Williams

Wednesday, January 8, 2014


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The Indian links


By AbidaRahmani


How can we ignore so much hype about Indian politics?They had elections in five provinces or states .The Hindu nationalist Bharatiya Janata Party took first place with 31seats, while Congress was left with a meagre eight.If this trend maintained in general elections, thenNarindarSingh Modi is going to be the next prime minister of India. He was labelled as butcher of Gujrati Muslims. But who cares about Muslims? May be this act has turned him into a hero. The Muslims tried to yell, protest and agitate, however no heed was paid to their voices.

The fledgling AamAadmi Party, or Common Man's Party, with election symbol of a broom seized 28 of Delhi's 70 assembly seats just nine months after its formation and AAP convener ArvindKejriwal announced Monday he would head a state government for New Delhi in a stunning breakthrough just months before a general election,defeating Sheila dixit the chief minister.This new political party pledging to sweep corruption from the Indian capital made surprising gains in state elections, grabbing a huge share of votes from the incumbent Congress party..

There are about 280 Million Muslims in India, which is the biggest Muslim population in a single country now after the debacle of East Pakistan. Yet they are a minority in India, quite a big one though. Gone are the ages when Muslims ruled India and later on some of the states. However the Indian channel Zee TV is showing its generosity or goodwill to Muslims by showing two Dramas "Jodha Akbar" and “Qaboolhai“based primarilyon Muslim culture, values and heritage. 

Mughal emperor Akbar is still quite popular among Hindu masses for his liberal accommodative views. He has been depicted in many Indian Movies dramas and stories on Indi cinema. He had a Hindu Rajput wife by the name of Jodhabai. Historians differ on the name but this is history that he tried to mingle up some of the Hindu traditions in Islam and named it Deen-iElahi. 

Yet he was the most powerful and successful among Mughal Emperors. I am not digging up history just what we are watching from Zee TV. Jodha Akbar with a vast cast is a big costume drama for this small screen. Those who watched the Bollywood movie Joda Akbar say that this is much better. Showing the Mughal era, Emperor, Queens,Khwajasiras(Trans genders), the royal court, Ministers,Subedars, servants, public,army, it is an elaborate cast. Zee TV has really worked hard and spends a lot to depict such an enormous presentation. The Emperor and his family speaks wonderful Urdu (in fact they were Farsi speaking) while Jodha and her family speaks strong Hindi or Sanskrit. Showing quite a bit of royal values and traditions, it’sfascinating to watch this show.

The other one”Qaboolhai” is a big family drama with all the Muslim names and characters. Showing quite a bit liberal Muslim families from Bhopal with screwed up, twistedstories. There are some intriguing relationships, hatching conspiracies and their family problems, which are sometimes tried to sort out by going to shrines. Arshad a typical Muslim man having two wives and divided families. The main character Zoya is a young girl back from New York having somewhat western influence. I am just watching these for the last 3 months while these dramas go on for ages.

May be this is the first ever drama on an Indian channel based on Muslim families and characters. 

Talking about Indian Muslims, they are proud to be called Indians and why not it’s their country of origin. One ofmyfriends from Hyderabad, Deccan, gets agitated every time she is considered a Pakistani. Moreover my Sikh friends never introduce themselves as Indians. They prefer calling themselves Punjabis. Sometimes Sikhs are targeted for being Muslims in America. 

In North America south Asians are generally considered one people or one raceand the term Desi has got so popular for them. In fact they are Badesis.( Alien Immigrants)

Indian cinema or Bollywood is ruling most of the homes of south Asians. Some of them religiously watch every release. How can we forget about so many Khans ruling the Bollywood? They are the Akbarsof present time, having Hindu wives and quite accommodative to Hindu culture. Yet they have Muslim names and identities. Last year Amir Khan went for hajj with his mother, which was a great stir in media. Dilip Kumar was a Hindu name and now the trend is to proudly keep your Muslim names.

When I posted my article “peeping across the Wahgah border, a loving Indian friend chatted,Apaa why didn’t you come across to me through those gates.” Welost many contacts of our relatives there in Lucknow and Hyderabad. These online tools established so many more adorable contacts and friends.

A group of Pakistan is trying AmankiAashalinks with India and the government is trying too to establish contacts. Recently Shahbaz Sharif was there watching Kabaddi match between India and Pakistan. The main interaction was between Military DGMs on the border, which was a very positive step. Friendly relations are the need of the time for the region. We have suffered tremendously in war and violence and now the peace should prevail.
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